hello friends,,,,,,,
nice to get some comments from u all form my topics......
today i jsut wanted to discuss about a small yet a very major topic......... at this time many of us are getting placed many are planning for future studies ..... its for sure by 2-3 years all will be placed in some company doing a gud job having a nice salary n making parents happpy .......... at this moment i just want all of us to just rewind a few moments of our life ...since starting guess LKG ,UKG, 1st .................. we never knew abt all this wen we were born we were so lucky that we got it all through our parents . never knew it was costly or free or what is the use of it .. slowly as we settled down to a school we made great frds all studied had naughty times had fun evrythin possible .. we didnt have to care about anything....... i am quite evryone who is reading this today as an internet conection or a laptop or gud dress to wear vry gud food to eat ..... still now we dont know the importance of all these things that we got freee of cost ...
but wen we were in the journey enjoying all these things i am sure we msut have met up with small small children who were living in streets or in small houses or the children of the servants who used to come to our house to clean.. many small children who know nothin like studies or what u call as a multiplex or a shopping mall or whatever kfc mcdonalds all these stuffs ...... they are still ignorant of all these stuffs..... we within ourselves tell that he or she is vry gud in studies or see man they r so damn rich ppl.....
what i am goin to say may sound like u know smthing really impossible or strange or people may say what he is saying its not practically possible stuffs all keep saying abt these......
but still i jsut want to tell what is in my mind...
we will be earning money .... we look at those small children in street who look dirty n all but with the money which we r getting cant we give a little to support their lifes too .. a small book or helping them to understand to read and write .. its not always money ... u teach them a new thing .. u should see the happiness in their face.. its smthing pleasing ... we all have gud education well supported family y not a small percent of it may be 1% of it we use it to support the life of these people u never know they can one day a vry big ppl all with our small effort ... n i dont think 1% of ones salary or education if we share with these people it will go waste..... .
i urge people to support any offenage for those small people who have never found their life beautiful or happy or hv never got gud food ..... if evryone of us give a small may be even a 0.1% contribution to it a thosuand people doing the same can surely make a diffrence to atleast one small child ..... or may be a small smile in their face
and i dont think god will curse us for doing that ........... afterall its not so bad to do something of that sort
dont u think ... do think about it ,,,,,, n make a diffrence.... i willl wen its possible or me i expect u all to do the same ..
thank you



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FRIENDSHIP



When we hear this word friendship we often come across a question like who is a true friend....

some of us find the question very simple as very easily they come up with many names .
Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. friendship are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration.
How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?
The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.

This was about how we define this relation but has anyone thought how we come up with something like this????
Genuine Friendship involves a shared sense of care n concern, a ddesire to see one another grow and develop and hope for each other to succeed in life
True Friendship also involves action like doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return. Friendship is a realtionship although its not a blood relation but most of the time it becomes more important that.But many people say like hey " he is one my best friend" yet they never take time to spend with that so called best friend.Friendship is not a one day established realtion it takes time to develop.it takes time to know each other time to make some pleasing memories which can be later on thought about.
Trust is another factor which i personally feel is the most essential in a friendship or i would rather say in any relation.We all need someone with whom we want to share our sorrow , happinesss,frustruation.We should be able to share our deepest secret with a frd without worrying that those secrets will end up in the internet the next day. failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a relation in very small time.

A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.


I am so happy that i have such friends in my life...... i cant mention the whole of them but i cant resist some name who have proved to me that they will be der for me the whole life as a true gr8 friend
disha ,siuli , ganesh, sunny, tejaswi , rakesh n ritwika are some among them
and most important i have two best friends who r incomparable to any other frd
MY PARENTS. :)


hope u like this article ........
god bless u all with such true friends in life


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S U C C E S S


SUCCESS



I just wanted to describe the word "SUCCESS" in a way what i think hope you all like it

The Road To Success

Is Not Straight

There Is A Curve Called

FAILURE

A Loop Called

CONFUSION

Speed Bumps Called

FRIENDS

Red Light Called

ENEMIES

Caution Lights Called

FAMILY

Will Have Flat Tires Called

JOBS

But If You Have A Spare Called

DETERMINATION

An Engine Called

PRESERVANCE

A Driver Called

GOD

YOU WILL MAKE IT TO A PLACE CALLED
SUCCESS......






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OUR PARENTS


parents

the firrst thing that come to our mind when we hear this word is our dear parents is the face our mom n dad. They are those with whom we spent most of our childhood days .They are those whose hands we used to hold to walk around. they were the people whom we trusted in everything wen we knew nothing. but we never knew what they were doing in our life they gave us almost evrything possible without asking anything in return all they wanted was love from us and smtime we gave it unknowingly or sometimes we deprived them from that also wen we used to be a stubborn children wen we wanted almost evrythin we see around us ,...
Then we came into the age called tennage i guess this was the toughest time we had given to our parents because we were in a age wen we took them for granted we wanted frds n others more than our parents who silently loved us and helped us wen ever we needed them or at times we never knew how they helped us .wHatever our problem we would run saying help help n only ppl responding would be our parents.
they say after god our parents are the best creation so is it . they r more than god for us because they were the one who told us about god isnt it .. wen we reach the teenage age we feel whatever they say is wrong.. of course some r wrong but most of their advices r always correct its only that the generation gap comes into play and our inner self doest allow us to listen to it .. but later on wen we start facing problems only their advice wrks for us.they love us no matter wat and in all situation they remain in our side.
although i have yet to experience it but i am very sure that watever advice they have given us all are for our good only always its jsut our age problem in which we really cannot agree to it always .
i can go on on writing about parents beacuse i love n respect them but still i stop here by saying
LOVE UR PARENTS FOR THEM UR THE WORLD TO THEM.
lv you mom n dad to whom i dedicate this blog :)


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WHO IS GOD ?



who is god is certainly a intresting question which remains in our mind ....He's been described as everything from an impersonal life-force to a benevolent, personal, almighty Creator. He has been called by many names, including: "Zeus," "Jupiter," "Brahma," "Allah," "Ra," "Odin," "Ashur," "Izanagi," "Viracocha," "Ahura Mazda," and "the Great Spirit" to name just a few. He's seen by some as "Mother Nature" and by others as "Father God." But who is He really? Who does He claim to be?

A very good question. There are a lot of different answers to this question. Some people say, "There is no God." Your answer to this question will determine how you treat other people and where you will spend eternity. Our belief about who God is will also determine whether we worship God or worship ourselves. If we love God then we will love people. We have three major religions in this world. They are opposite each other, therefore they cannot all be true!

Let me explain;

Christianity says, "That God died for man."
Islam says, "That man must die for God."
Hinduism says, "That God is who you make him to be in your mind."
Christianity says, "That God made man."

Islam = self worship
Hinduism = self worship
Christianity = God’s grace

Self worship is you trying to do for God what God has already done for you!

Grace is God doing for you what you cannot do for yourself!



welll if we think about all this we can jsut come to a simple conclusion according to me its upto u to beleive it or not .....
god is simply evrywhere everyone calls god by diffrent name ..... this made diffrences in our life styles and in our caste all are man made. god made us to live according to his plan ... he only taught us one religion that is humanity thats y we all are called human being a person living in us or india doesnt really matter coz at the end of the day they r human.... they r made to love each other help each other and make the earth a much better place he has given each n evryone one with some special talent which evryone comes to know once in his lifetime may be we feel that talent is nothin much compared to others but i would like to ask you who the hell r u to compare ? what rights do you have .... when u say ur own life its so diffrent from the one standing next to you all have same behaviour thats of course natures rule but ur mind heart n brain works for u alone....we r the rulers of our body and we can simply do anything we want.... its jsut upto how we utilise the resources with which we r provided.. for example if u see a coachin class out of 100 only one may be selected for IIT others r not .... there can be two postive reasons to it .. one is that it is not the right place for ur life .... or its simple as we all do that we do not regualry use our resources which we had .... at the end if we compare with the guy /girl who called made it to IIT u may see that he used each n every resource available he/she worked hard towards his or her goal and then god who iswatchin them always blessed them thats y we say we also needa bit of luck .. but luck is not simply provided to evryone all people who r hardwrking n true to themselves n other r always lucky ......
now question is where is god ???? why do we go to temple ??
let me answer it god is evrywhere in this world he is in air he is water he is evry single world of nature ...... then what r temples ??? temples are made for our peace of mind..... i find many people going to temple n closing der eyes n praying but what i ask today is u go to temple to meet god then y do u ppl close ur eyes............. open ur eyes see god pray n he will surely bless each one of us......... god bless each one of us ...... love each other n spread happiness thats life
and ths what makes life so beautiful


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SACRIFCE


everyone in life does some sacrifice or the other may be at times its for others some times its for ourselves and sometimes it happens by itself ........ now y do ppl do sacrifice wts the use of doin sacrifice and does it always get recognised well from my personal life i would sayA BIG NO ... its never necessary to do a sacrifice and then wait for it be recognised if ur reason for doing it is good then we need not worry god will reward as although we usually expect for a reward..... i would like to share a personal experience.... i would mention anything clearly abt it although..... well it goes like this i had one fine day decided to do a a sacrifice for me it was a great sacrifice wen i made that decsion i knew that i was goin to loose the most precious thing in life but then wen i thought about that i found that tht sacrfice would make someones life really a better n happier one ........ then again sticking to a sacrifice like this was smthin very difficult to do .... imagin wen u r goin to loose ur most precious thing u think 100-10000 times abt it whether do it or not but then later on decided to do it .. but it was not a one day sacrfice to do it took me around 5-6 months to get it done wen i got it done i was abused i got all kind of disrespect from evryone ... but these were stuffs expected many a time i felt like breaking it off to all the reason as for y i did it coz tht would reveal it all.... but then went for praying to god he again made me realise as for y i am doin it n the purpose behind it ...... i still hv the hope n belieff tht my intention will succeed and sm day may be years later it would be recognised .......


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DOES LIFE MOVES AS U THINK


well this is always a very good question to ask for urself doe life moves as u think many say ya its upon us to make it move the way we want n blah blah....welll atleast 50% of what they say is well defined as they r confident enough to make it that way but there are some people who can advice others and make them happy over a period of time n get them out of their problems but they r never or mostly not able to implement that in their own life .... its becomes kind of tough ... wen u find tht life is not moving they way u wanted it to move .... it a kind of sad feeling wen it happen but then we have to move on becausse things like this will effect ourselves n our parents mostly .. life becomes more n more tougher ............ this is life ... as read in many msgs tht we get here n der in mobiless as difficulties in life are to carve our life n make us more stronger..... it well n true as the experienced ppl say but we as youngsters dont really know abt it na n we feel its not wrking out .... so wat do we get out of this .???????? this is a big question which even i am tryin to find a answer to ....... life moves they way it has been decided to move by GOD he works only in a good way in life never in the wrong way it looks though but its never that .. prayer is something that really works because there are many stuffs which we cant tell our parents or even our closse frdss tht can be only told to god .. and he/she (anywys u define god) always listen to us and makes the right decison n makes us works towards it ...... the most importantt to is the commitment we have the attitude which we have to acheive it


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