FRIENDSHIP



When we hear this word friendship we often come across a question like who is a true friend....

some of us find the question very simple as very easily they come up with many names .
Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. friendship are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration.
How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?
The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.

This was about how we define this relation but has anyone thought how we come up with something like this????
Genuine Friendship involves a shared sense of care n concern, a ddesire to see one another grow and develop and hope for each other to succeed in life
True Friendship also involves action like doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return. Friendship is a realtionship although its not a blood relation but most of the time it becomes more important that.But many people say like hey " he is one my best friend" yet they never take time to spend with that so called best friend.Friendship is not a one day established realtion it takes time to develop.it takes time to know each other time to make some pleasing memories which can be later on thought about.
Trust is another factor which i personally feel is the most essential in a friendship or i would rather say in any relation.We all need someone with whom we want to share our sorrow , happinesss,frustruation.We should be able to share our deepest secret with a frd without worrying that those secrets will end up in the internet the next day. failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a relation in very small time.

A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.


I am so happy that i have such friends in my life...... i cant mention the whole of them but i cant resist some name who have proved to me that they will be der for me the whole life as a true gr8 friend
disha ,siuli , ganesh, sunny, tejaswi , rakesh n ritwika are some among them
and most important i have two best friends who r incomparable to any other frd
MY PARENTS. :)


hope u like this article ........
god bless u all with such true friends in life


6 comments:

J@FF said...
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Binny singh said...

The last second paragraph is true....a true friend never make excuse when you need his help.And instead of having lots of friend its good to some best friend like you have describe.Happy that you have got some of them.

jestin john said...

It is excellent dude hope we will also do the same relationship to our best friend.thanks and lots of encouragement from my side to you tc.

Unknown said...

u r vry rite ani....after our parents they r our frnds who give us the strength to walk ahead....even m vry lucky 2 hv frnds like u disha ganesh tejaswi prachi n tanya..........hope our frndship remains like dis forever........cheers 2 our frndship.....

ani..... said...

wow ani.that was ausumn......although we all think making friends is a much easier task.yet......defining it.it much more difficult....u defined it right....i hope.many of ur followers will read it and question from themselve...."r we fulfillings...these demands of friendsp."gr8 word dude.keep it up....

Sathya said...

How true...friends are the family we get to choose. I'm so glad you are my friend. Keep up the good work!!!!